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Terms & Conditions of Service and/or Membership as of 3/1/08

IMPORTANT NOTICE:  Please do not attempt to become a member of Insight-for-Living or donate money to it at this time. Work, however, is being done to make this possible. When you no longer see this notice on this page, then by all means please become a member and/or donate money to help keep this website in operation on the internet.  This work should be completed by the end of September, 2008. We hope to hear from you after then. Thank you.

If you wish to order services or become a member of insight-for-living (IFL) you must first completely read, understand, and agree to our Terms of Service and/or Membership Agreement dated 3/1/08 and read and understand all other notifications posted as of, or subsequent to, the same date.  If you have agreed to an earlier dated version of this agreement simply read sections 26 and 27 of this agreement to review all changes or updates and then click the "Agree" button to agree to the current agreement.  

IFL is a website administered by 1st PsychoSpiritual Institute (1stPSI).  1stPSI is a psychospiritual counseling, guidance, and education organization of which IFL is an internet extension.  Receiving services from and/or becoming a member of IFL is synonymous with receiving services from and/or becoming a member of 1sPSI.  For all intents and purposes IFL and 1stPSI are one in same.

The section headings in the following table of contents are listed in the order they appear in the agreement.  If you wish to only see a specific section of this agreement you can click it from the table of contents and link directly to that section.

Table of Contents

01) Agreement to Accept Terms
02) Issues Not Appropriate for Services
03) Minimum Age Requirements
04) Appropriateness of Online Counseling
05) General Goals of Counseling
06) Counseling Responsibilities of the Client
07) The Client-Therapist Relationship
08) Length of IFL Individual Counseling Services
09) Privacy Regulations & Information Releases to Third Parties
10) Client/Member Rights
11) Availability and Response Time of IFL
12) Policies for Services and Missed/Late Appointments
13) Preservation of Email or Session Data
14) Communications Security
15) Technical Difficulties Which May Arise From Use of IFL
16) Renewal and Termination of Services
17) Use of Copyrighted Material
18) Links to Other Websites
19) Advertisements
20) Service Marks and Trademarks
21) Service of Notice
22) Choice of Law
23) Merger Clause
24) Limitations of Liability
25) Other Notifications
26) New Notifications
27) Revisions to This Agreement

01) Agreement to Accept Terms

In order to receive services from and/or become a free or regular member of insight-for-living, hereafter referred to as IFL, all member and nonmember clients, hereafter referred to collectively as the client(s), must first read and agree to all of the following terms and conditions of service and/or membership. This requirement will be acknowledged and agreed to by the client by clicking the “Agree” button located at the bottom of this agreement. This agreement pertains to all services provided by IFL. If the client does not understand any part of this agreement, contact IFL for clarification before agreeing to this agreement or accepting services or membership.

IFL may at any time modify the terms of this agreement. Modifications to this agreement will be dated and posted at the end of this agreement under section (27) entitled Revisions to This Agreement along with any former portion of the agreement that was affected by and subject to the change. Any part(s) of this current agreement, which may have been affected by the modification, has been amended to reflect the new change(s). The former portions of the agreement listed for historical purposes under section (27) are null and void as of the date of termination posted. The termination date is also the date under which the new modification takes effect.

THIS IS NOT A CRISIS INTERVENTION SITE! IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT, OR INTENDING TO HARM YOURSELF OR ANYONE ELSE, IMMEDIATELY CALL YOUR LOCAL 911 EMERGENCY SERVICE PROVIDER OR OTHER LOCAL CRISIS HOTLINE OR EMERGENCY SERVICES WHOSE TELEPHONE NUMBERS APPEAR IN YOUR LOCAL TELEPHONE DIRECTORY.

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02) Issues Not Appropriate for Services

Suicidal or homicidal thoughts or intentions always need to be handled immediately by services in the client’s local area. This also applies to other crisis situations that the client wishes to immediately gain access to services for. IFL may not be able to react to such a crisis in a timely manner because:  incoming messages and emails are not checked regularly, IFL staff are routinely away from the office (this service is currently only staffed part-time by one person outside of normal workday hours), and counselors contracted to meet higher demand for services than currently staffed might not be readily available. IFL will offer service for clients with most other issues but the client should first consider whether the communication between IFL and the client might be problematic. Domestic violence counseling is one such example. If the client is a victim of domestic violence and still lives with the abuser and communication between the client and IFL occurs at a computer located in the victim’s residence, the possibility exists that the abuser could breach the computer’s security features and access emails or saved interactions during chat sessions. This type of security breach can even be accomplished remotely. The consequences of such a breach of confidentiality could be fatal. In stances such as this the client is advised to consider alternate forms of communication with IFL, such as use of a computer, mailing address, telephone, and/or email address and account that is not known and accessible to people whom the client would not want access granted. Also consider the use of conventional, face-to-face counseling services in the client‘s local area. Referrals for counselors in your local area are available by clicking on the link to the National Board of Certified Counselors (NBCC) found at: www.nbcc.org. When you reach the home page look for the “counselor find” link located at the top of the lower left-side menu. Click that button and then enter, where indicated, the city nearest you and the state you live in to find listings for local National Certified Counselors (NCC). 

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03) Minimum Age Requirements

In order to join or receive services from IFL you must be at least 18 years of age unless you have the written permission of your parent(s) or guardian(s). Letters of permission can be mailed to IFL, P.O. Box 2867, Virginia Beach, VA 23450-2867.

Unless written permission from the client’s parent or guardian is on file with IFL for clients under the age of 18, the client acknowledges that he or she is 18 years of age or older before accepting IFL services or membership.

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04) Appropriateness of Online Counseling

IFL believes that online conventional mental health counseling may be preferable to in-person, face-to-face counseling if the client: does not have insurance and wishes to save money; wishes to save time traveling to and from appointments; has trouble keeping or getting to appointments; lives in a remote area; wishes to interact with a therapist from home, work, or in transit from one destination to another; wishes to maintain greater anonymity (in order to discuss embarrassing experiences; if afraid, for any reason, of interacting with a therapist face-to-face; or due to other insecurities or concerns); or in order to maintain a record of the online session or email.

Given the current state of technology available to most clients using the internet who are seeking conventional mental health counseling and for those clients who are not concerned about the issues, or issues similar to those discussed in the previous paragraph, IFL believes that in-person, face-to-face meetings with a licensed therapist may be the optimal form of diagnosis and treatment for strictly mental health issues. The main reason for this is the lack of nonverbal cues, which will usually not exist in an online counseling relationship. Nonverbal cues may possibly increase the accuracy of diagnosis and better determine the course of, and response to, treatment. Contact your insurance provider for appropriate referrals if you feel this option is best for you. If you do not have an insurance provider, check your local phone directory for listings or link to the NBCC at: www.nbcc.org and follow the instructions cited in section (02). IFL will attempt to compensate for the lack of nonverbal cues by informing the client of any uncertainty IFL has in the response of the client and by attempting to clarify client responses by probing further and asking for more information. Telephone counseling sessions with IFL is also a way to partially overcome this problem but still prohibits the therapist from seeing nonverbal visual cues which may be relevant to helping the therapist gain a fuller understanding of the client’s problems and issues.

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05) General Goals of Psychospiritual Counseling

The client acknowledges that some of the primary goals of psychospiritual counseling and the responsibilities of the psychospiritual therapist include but are not necessarily limited to the following:

- to educate clients how to better experience the spiritual aspect of life

- to help clients better integrate their spiritual beliefs into their daily lives

- to offer spiritual guidance to clients with no spiritual direction or who wish to explore other alternatives they have not previously considered

- to educate clients how to increase the effectiveness of their current spiritual practices or beliefs

- to offer alternate perspectives of clients' current spiritual beliefs or practices that may possibly help them overcome their problems or increase fulfillment

- to help clients understand their current spiritual beliefs or practices

- to educate clients on the various types of spiritual and psychological beliefs, theories, and practices available along with their goals, similarities, and differences

- to assist clients in helping them live more fulfilling lives

- to help clients overcome problems in their daily lives which are an obstacle to living a happy, fulfilling life

- to bring to client’s attention information that they may be unaware of that contributes to their problems or psychospiritual difficulties

- to encourage and assist clients to be the authors of their own solutions to their problems as much as possible

- to refer clients to other resources which may help them

- to refer the client to other therapists if the IFL therapist or client believes the current counseling relationship is not serving the client’s best interests

- to educate clients how to reduce their suffering and the suffering of others

- to educate clients how to increase their happiness and the happiness of others

- to offer clients emotional support for the way they feel

- to help clients become aware of, confront, and overcome the forces which prevent or limit optimum psychospiritual well being

- to help prevent harm to the client

- to inform the client of the purposes, goals, techniques, procedures, limitations, potential risks and benefits of the psychospiritual services provided by IFL

- to educate clients about problem solving skills

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06) Counseling Responsibilities of the Client

Problem resolution and/or realization of optimum psychospiritual well being is ultimately the responsibility of the client. The client acknowledges that the following list is not a requirement in order to receive services from IFL, however, compliance with as many of the following items as possible will most likely result in partial or complete problem resolution and/or optimum psychospiritual well being and happiness. These responsibilities include but are not limited to :

- confronting, accepting, and working towards overcoming obstacles brought to your attention by IFL which may result in greater psychospiritual well being, happiness, and/or the resolution of your problems

- being open to considering and/or integrating spiritual, psychological, scientific principles, techniques, and technologies into your life to increase fulfillment and happiness and/or for the resolution of problems

- trying to the best of your ability to regularly practice the techniques learned from IFL

- carrying out all of the requirements of homework assigned by IFL

- being open to fear, confusion, and the unknown

- being accepting of yourself, others, different opinions, …everything

- being open to hearing, trusting, and following your own inner wisdom and intuition

- understanding that for optimum results you must make the final decision

- accept that you are probably not perfect by cultural standards and that that is O.K.

- being or working on cultivating patience

- being realistic

- being willing to acknowledge and accept that any progress towards goals, however slight, as relevant and a good sign of progress

- being willing to accept your mistakes and disappointments as good learning experiences from which you can grow and become happier and more fulfilled

- being open as much as possible to constructive feedback from IFL

- to not become dependent upon IFL in an unhealthy way

- to not expect IFL to be responsible for your happiness, psychospiritual well being, or for the resolution of your problems

- accepting responsibility for your role in your own problems

- accepting that truth is sometimes dynamic and not always absolute

- reconsidering beliefs and attitudes which may be causing your problems or holding you back from greater psychospiritual well being and happiness

- being open to and working towards increasing your tolerance for emotional and even physical discomfort

- letting go of the certainty of all expectations

- accepting certain realities about yourself

- reconsidering accepting and living by dysfunctional cultural standards for the sake of your greater happiness and psychospiritual fulfillment

- paying close attention to everything as much as possible

- asking for clarification if you think, even ever so slightly, that you do not understand what IFL is saying to you

- consider the potential consequences of your thoughts, actions, and speech

- accept the fact that you are capable of great accomplishment

- accept that small accomplishments are great

- accept that great (and usually lesser) accomplishments usually take time, persistence, and maybe even hard work to realize

- accept that not everything in life is or should be easy

- not expect instant gratification or results

- inform IFL and relevant others of your insights or knowledge - we learn from you too

- increasing your tolerance for, and a desire to understand, what you don’t agree with or find objectionable

- to do no harm to others, emotionally or otherwise

- know, accept, and act in mindfulness of your limitations

- become more aware of when you can make changes and when you can not

- to accept what you can not change

- joining IFL in helping others achieve happiness and greater psychospiritual well being

- being open to the possibility that better ways may exist to overcome your problems and increase your happiness and psychospiritual well being than you previously knew or were willing to consider

- considering that any solutions or information that IFL provides to you may not be the best for your situation and may have unexpected and/or what you consider to be negative outcomes

- remember that you have freedom of choice

- remember that you are under no obligation to accept or follow IFL advice or information

- remember that advice, opinions, and information from IFL are more than likely only one of myriad possibilities that you may consider or act upon

- trust that IFL is offering you advice and information for in what IFL believes to be is in your best interests that may result in the resolution of your problems, and/or greater happiness and psychospiritual well being

- remember that the IFL teacher-counselor is definitely also human and imperfect and can and does make mistakes

- not let the imperfections, mistakes, ignorance, or problems you have with any IFL staff or contract staff interfere with the quality of the information or advice being passed to you or your ability to accept that information as being potentially beneficial and/or relevant to you

- not hesitate to bring to the IFL staff’s attention anything which you feel he or she may be thinking, saying, or doing in the course of your interactions with him or her which you feel may be causing you harm or which may interfere or potentially interfere with the quality of service which you are entitled to receive from IFL

- remember that IFL staff should be making all attempts possible to resolve conflicts or potential conflicts with you and should try their best to accept their mistakes or ignorance and take responsibility for them

- contact the Director of IFL if you are having problems with any other IFL staff that you can not first resolve with them

IFL hopes that clients will also consider maintaining long-term regular memberships with IFL and use its individual services, which are available to everyone, on an as needed basis. IFL believes this combination of services will provide clients with the optimum benefit. Clients are not required to maintain any type of IFL membership in order to receive individual services but should know that with an IFL membership comes discounted individual services.

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07) The Client-Therapist Relationship

Although interactions between client and therapist may be very intimate emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically, it is important for the client to remember that a professional relationship rather than a personal one is taking place. Contact between client and therapist will be limited to pay-for services, interactions resulting from being an IFL member, and/or contact intended to arrange for paid sessions or memberships or to answer questions or address problems regarding IFL services. The client agrees to not relate to IFL therapists or stand-in therapists in any other way than in the professional context of counseling interactions. Examples of interactions which exceed the boundaries of a professional client-therapist relationship include but are not limited to the offering of gifts or services, bartering for services, and invitation to social functions or other social interactions. The client will be best served if the client-therapist relationship remains strictly professional and if sessions concentrate exclusively on client concerns and issues. The client may learn about the therapist in the course of counseling sessions or as a IFL member, but should remember that this information is only being provided to the client by the therapist in a professional role designed to benefit the client exclusively and not to establish a personal relationship. Virginia Licensed Therapists are forbidden to engage in sexual intimacies with clients for at least five years after termination of the client-therapist relationship and are also required to comply with professional standards and ethics to maintain nothing other than a professional relationship with their clients. Any IFL therapist who violates these standards should be immediately reported to the Director of IFL for further action.

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08) Length of IFL Individual Counseling Services

The client acknowledges that the length of IFL individual psychospiritual counseling services, which may be used by IFL members and nonmembers alike, may vary depending on numerous factors including, but not limited to, the following:

- the opinion of the therapist

- the opinion or wishes of the client

- the agreement between client and therapist

- the type of problem

- the amount of commitment required by the client to solve problems and/or accomplish goals

- the quality of the relationship between therapist and client

- the degree of progress accomplished

- financial constraints

- the psychospiritual stability of the client

- the expectations of the client

Due to these and other factors, an individual counseling relationship may last anywhere from one session or email to many years.

The length of an IFL membership, which is distinct from individual services that both IFL members and nonmembers may use, depends on the type of membership. Free IFL membership lasts for two months and can be taken advantage of one time. Regular membership lasts for one year and will automatically be renewed by IFL unless the client provides notification that he or she does not wish to renew his or her membership. Read sections (16) and (21) entitled Renewal and Termination of Member or Individual Services and Service of Notice for further details regarding membership renewal, termination, and acceptable forms of notice.

IFL hopes that clients will consider maintaining long-term regular memberships with IFL and use its individual services available to everyone on an as needed basis. IFL believes this combination of services will provide clients with the optimum psychospiritual benefit. Clients are not required to maintain an IFL membership in order to receive individual services. Regular and free IFL membership does, however, entitle members to discounts in the fees charged for individual counseling services.

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09) Privacy Regulations & Information Releases to Third Parties

This notice is written in accordance with the privacy regulations promulgated under the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA), 45 CTR parts 160 and 164 (the "Privacy Regulation"). It describes how medical information about you and your family members may be used and disclosed and how you can get access to this information. IFL complies with these privacy regulations and all other laws and regulations pertaining to our client's and member's right to privacy. Under normal circumstances, IFL therapists or stand-in therapists are obligated to, and will maintain strict confidentiality of information provided to them by you and will disclose no information or the fact that you are a client or member of IFL without your written consent, which can be revoked by you at any time. By law, however, IFL therapists or stand-in therapists must make certain exceptions to this rule. The following is a complete list of occasions when other authorities must, and will be notified of client information without your consent:

> Client disclosures to therapist of a specific and immediate (and as of 7/1/08 a substantial likelihood in the near future per Virginia law) threat to cause serious bodily injury or death to self or identifiable others, and the therapist believes client or member has the intent and ability to carry out said threat, therapist will take steps to protect client or third parties. These precautions may include but are not limited to:  1) contacting emergency services personnel in the geographic location the client is contacting IFL from, which may include law enforcement authorities; 2) contact with parent or guardian of the potential victim(s) if under age 18; 3) warning the potential victim(s); 4) if possible contact with significant others who might be able to render assistance and protection; 5) referral to mental health treatment facilities; and/or 6) contracting for safety.

> During vacation/emergencies of therapist when other colleague may cover services.

> To ensure quality service is provided, therapists may meet with consultant. When doing so, no identifying information with be disclosed. Names of consultants will be provided upon request.

> Third-party billers such as PayPal will be provided with information that is only applicable to billing. At this time IFL does not accept insurance nor contracts with managed care companies.

> IFL office staff will have access only to client and member information necessary for them to carry out their administrative duties (e.g., records storage, appointment confirmation or change notices, third-party billing issues, etc.).

Virginia law requires therapists to release information to others under the following circumstances:

> Suspicion of abuse or neglect of a child under the age of 18 at the time of report or of an aged or incapacitated adult must be reported to the Department of Social Services or its out-of-state equivalent. This rule is in accordance with Virginia Code Section 63.1-248.2, which defines reportable child abuse/neglect as follows:

- Causes or threatens to cause a non-accidental physical or mental injury;

- Neglects or refuses to provide adequate food, clothing, shelter, emotional nurturing, or health care;

- Abandons the child;

- Neglects or refuses to provide adequate supervision in relation to a child’s age and level of development; or

- Commits or allows to be committed any illegal sexual act upon a child, including incest, rape, indecent exposure, prostitution, or allows a child to be used in any sexually explicit visual material.

Many other states use under the age of 12 for when adequate supervision becomes an issue, which is what IFL will use. Disclosures or suspicions by the client that others have committed these offenses will only be reported if the therapist suspects that abuse has occurred and in some cases the therapist may advise the client to make the report. Reports will be made within 24 hours of first suspicion to the appropriate authorities in the geographic location where the victim lives or where the abuse or neglect is suspected to have occurred.

>  For clients who are licensed by a Health Regulatory Board of Virginia State, the therapist will report that the client is receiving therapy if the therapist believes the client's condition places the public at risk.

>  Information that a therapist or physician is engaging in unethical illegal practice must be reported to their respective licensing board.

>  When a court orders the therapist to surrender records or give testimony. This may apply in criminal cases, child abuse cases, courts in which client's mental health is an issue, or other cases in which the judge "in the exercise of sound discretion, deems it necessary for the proper administration of justice." If a subpoena is issued seeking client IFL records (email or chat transcripts or other records kept by IFL regarding interactions with IFL), IFL will notify the client immediately and, with client consent, will cooperate with client's attorney in filing a motion to quash the subpoena and request that the confidentiality of the therapy relationship be protected. In Virginia, if a motion is made to quash, IFL is required to place requested records in a sealed envelope and provide them to the clerk of court of jurisdiction so the court can determine whether the records should be released. You will be informed in advance if this happens. The judge, however, has final authority in the disclosure of client records or therapist testimony.

> Virginia law allows certain others to request access to treatment records in specific circumstances. These include:  1) protective services workers to whom suspected abuse or neglect has been reported to, if they so request; 2) court-appointed special advocates in child abuse or neglect proceedings, if the court orders such; and 3) evaluators for minors' involuntary commitment to inpatient treatment, if so requested by them. In all these cases the IFL therapist will make every attempt to limit the information disclosed by substituting an oral or written report rather than submit actual treatment records.

> If you are under 18, Virginia law allows your parents to obtain information and/or records related to your treatment.

Disclosure of victim, abuser, and/or threats of harm to self or others described in this preceding list will probably be in the best psychospiritual interests (although not necessarily the legal or short-term interests) of the client and any victims or abusers. If you do not agree with this position then carefully consider what you communicate to therapists regarding these issues. You may also wish to carefully consider disclosing anything that may be damaging to you in court. Therapists will make all attempts possible to quash subpoenas for court records or testimony which may reflect negatively on the client in court if the records or testimony has nothing to do with harm to self or others or child or aged/incapacitated adult abuse or neglect. Requests by clients for release of information to third parties must be in writing, on forms provided by IFL, and on file with IFL before the information is released. 

If an IFL client wishes IFL to release information about his or herself to a third party, IFL requires the client to first sign a written release of information form, which will be provided to the client by IFL. This release of information form must first be on file with IFL before any information is released to the third party. The client acknowledges that he or she will be responsible for mailing the completed release to IFL, P.O. Box 2867, Virginia Beach, VA 23450-2867. IFL will not release information regarding the client, or even acknowledge that the client receives services from IFL, to any third party without this release of information unless the information falls under one of the exceptions discussed above in this section. Be advised that your information provided to any third party may become a permanent part of your file with them, and that neither you nor IFL will have control over the further confidentiality of that information or whether it is re-released for other purposes. IFL employees and contract therapists may exchange client information with each other on a need-to-know basis and will avoid exchanging personal identifying information such as the client’s name or contact information unless necessary in order to provide service to the client or in the performance of administrative functions. IFL therapists may exchange client information with each other in order to obtain additional input for a diagnostic assessment or treatment strategies and will avoid disclosing identifying information unless necessary.

The client acknowledges an understanding of the conditions under which IFL will release client information to third parties and to IFL therapists and other employees that do not directly serve the client. The client also agrees to not hold IFL liable or responsible in any way for any type of damages or injuries resulting from the release of client information to third parties or IFL therapists and other employees who do not provide primary service to the client.

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10) Client/Member Rights

> RIGHT TO REQUEST RESTRICTIONS. You have the right to request restrictions on certain uses and disclosures of protected health information about you. The IFL therapist, however, may not be required to agree to a restriction that you request.

> RIGHT TO RECEIVE CONFIDENTIAL COMMUNICATIONS BY ALTERNATIVE MEANS AND AT ALTERNATE LOCATIONS. You have the right to request and receive confidential communications of personal health information by alternative means and alternative locations such as having your bills sent to a different address.

> RIGHT TO INSPECT AND COPY. You have the right to inspect or obtain a copy (or both) of your personal health information and psychotherapy notes in your therapist's records and billing records that are used to make decisions about you for as long as the personal health information is maintained in the record (six years for IFL). Your therapist may deny you access to the personal health information under certain circumstances but in some cases you can have this decision reviewed. Upon your request, the therapist will discuss with you the details of the request and denial process.

> RIGHT TO AMEND. You have the right to request an amendment of your personal health information for as long as the information is maintained in the record. Your therapist may deny your request but will disclose the details of the amendment process.

> RIGHT TO AN ACCOUNTING. You generally have the right to receive an accounting of the disclosures of your personal health information for which you have neither provided consent of authorization as described in Section 9 of this agreement. Upon request by you, your therapist will discuss with you the details of this accounting process.

> RIGHT TO A PAPER COPY. You have the right to obtain a paper copy of this notice from your therapist upon request, even if you have agreed to receive the notice electronically.

If you are concerned that your privacy rights have been violated or you disagree with a decision made by your therapist about access to your records or for additional information regarding privacy policy please contact the IFL Director. You may also send a written complaint to the Secretary of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

IFL reserves the right to change this notice and to make a revised and changed notice effective for medical and mental health information. The current notice containing the effective date, which is currently 3/1/08, will be maintained in this section of this agreement.

For further information regarding the Privacy Regulations contained in this section and Section 9 of this agreement, speak with your therapist, the IFL Director, or their delegate.

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11) Availability and Response Time of IFL

IFL is currently a service that is operated on a part-time basis by one person. Consequently, new blog postings, email and regular mail may not be checked for up to a week or more and responses to many communications may not occur at all, with the exception of individual pay-for services (not general membership).  There may also be occasions when the IFL counselor is out of town and can not find a stand-in counselor. If such a case occurs, a notice will be posted on the website that will indicate when normal services will resume. If the client needs to contact a counselor sooner than the response time indicated by IFL for conventional mental health counseling, clients residing in the U.S. can find local NCCs by linking to the NBCC at: www.nbcc.org and by following the instructions described in section (02).

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12) Policies for Services and Missed/Late Appointments

All fees are nonrefundable and will be collected and cleared in advance of services via credit card, check, or money order payment. Credit cards will be processed through a secure online service. The client must settle insufficient funds penalties charged to IFL with IFL before the client may receive future services. Fees for all IFL services are disclosed in the Services section of the website. IFL does not accept insurance company reimbursements for services. Full advance payment for services prior to service delivery is the exclusive responsibility of the client.

If a client misses a session for any reason without advance notice by email or regular mail to IFL of at least 24 hours prior to the appointment, a missed session fee equal to one-half of the service fee will be charged to the client. Any remaining fees prepaid by the client will become a nonrefundable credit towards future IFL services. If a client begins a session late, IFL is only obligated to provide services for the time remaining in that scheduled session at the full price of the session with no credit given for future services.

The client agrees to these preceding terms for fees and policies for services and missed/late appointments as a condition of services rendered by IFL.

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13) Preservation of Email or Session Data

The client acknowledges that IFL may preserve the data exchanged from email inquiries, during one-on-one chat or instant messenger sessions, during telephone sessions, and from any intake forms which the client completes unless the client specifies otherwise before the session begins. If the client does not wish an email exchange to be recorded, the client acknowledges and agrees that he or she must state so within the content of the email transmission. Once the data is recorded it is required by state law to be kept for a minimum of five years after termination of the counseling relationship. Data will be stored in a locked container accessible only by IFL personnel and will be removed from IFL hard drives following the download of the data to disk. Hard paper records will be kept from telephone sessions. Records will not be kept from group chat sessions.

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14) Communications Security

IFL clients have the option to transfer information to and from IFL via encryption when emailing or during one-on-one or small-group chat sessions in order to ensure greater privacy. Use of unencrypted communications increases the possibility of a breach of confidentiality. Client acknowledges that counseling services which IFL offers via telephone will always be unencrypted.

Encrypted email exchanges are accomplished by use of “digital IDs” which is composed of a “public key,” a “private key,” and a “digital signature.” When you digitally sign your messages, you are adding your digital signature and public key to the message. The combination of a digital signature and public key is called a “certificate.” Recipients can use your digital signature to verify your identity and they can use your public key to send you encrypted mail that only you can read by using your private key. To send encrypted messages, your address book must contain digital IDs for each recipient. That way, you can use their public keys to encrypt the messages. When a recipient gets an encrypted message, their private key is used to decrypt the message for reading. Clients must obtain their digital IDs from certification authorities such as VeriSign for a nominal fee. Clients should consult their email software or email administrators for further details that may be unique to their particular systems.

When chatting with IFL via non-secure Yahoo Instant Messenger (YIM) or by secure instant messenger using Boomerang Software's Secure Shuttle Transport (SST),  members are responsible for downloading the instant messenger software for whichever means they prefer by going to either www.secureshuttle.com for SST or http://messenger.yahoo.com for YIM. 

Client acknowledges that the secure internet communications options IFL utilizes is not an absolute guarantee of privacy. With enough persistence and knowledge almost any security system can be breached. Client also acknowledges that if he or she wishes to utilize encrypted email, that the client is responsible for selecting and contacting a certification authority and will also be responsible for any fees charged by such services.

Every IFL client is issued a password or service code number in order to ensure the identity of the client, to verify that the client has prepaid for services, and to protect the privacy of the client. The client acknowledges that he or she is responsible for protecting passwords or service code numbers from use by unauthorized persons. The client further agrees that IFL will not be held responsible or liable in any way for any damages or injury caused from the unauthorized use of compromised passwords or service code numbers.

IFL will assume that the client does not wish to utilize encrypted communications when the client transmits an unencrypted email to IFL unless the client states otherwise within the text of the email he or she has sent. Likewise, if the email is sent encrypted by the client to IFL, it will be assumed that the client desires an encrypted response unless indicated otherwise within the text of the email the client has sent. Encrypted provisions will be made for one-on-one live chat sessions by IFL when this is indicated by the client during the service ordering process. Live encrypted or unencrypted group chat sessions must be agreed to either one way or the other by all participants in the group.

The client acknowledges and agrees to accept these rules for client selection of encrypted or unencrypted communications with IFL and also agrees to not hold IFL liable or responsible in any way for any type of damages or injuries to the client arising from encrypted or unencrypted communication insecurities which occur while in the course of communicating with IFL. The client also agrees to accept full responsibility for notifying IFL of his or her choice for encrypted or unencrypted communications.

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15) Technical Difficulties Which May Arise From Use of IFL

Myriad technical difficulties may arise from email exchanges or during chat sessions with IFL that may interrupt service and frustrate the client. In most cases, if the client or IFL can not determine how to correct these difficulties, more than likely the administrators of the internet provider service, email service, or chat session service of the client or IFL can guide the client or IFL to a resolution of the problem. In the meantime, however, IFL recommends the use of their telephone counseling services or telephone communication between client and IFL to resolve technical difficulties or to continue the interrupted service. The client should remember that one reason IFL might not respond to an email is because it never received the email due to some technical difficulty. Either re-attempt to email or use the regular mail.

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16) Renewal and Termination of Services

IFL may at its discretion terminate a client’s free or regular membership to IFL or IFL’s individual counseling relationship with a member or nonmember client, without refund of membership or service fees, for any reason it considers appropriate, which may include, but is not limited to the following:

- making threats against IFL employees, members, nonmember clients, or their family members

- exceeding the boundaries of the client-therapist relationship

- attempting to become a “free member” more than once

- failing to pay service or membership fees to IFL

- use of abusive language towards IFL employees, members, or nonmember clients

- discussing illegal activities with the intention of committing them

- for actions which restrict or inhibit other clients from using this service

- for attempts to alter the IFL Website in any way not authorized by IFL

The client’s annual regular membership will automatically be renewed unless IFL receives notice from the client that he or she does not wish to renew his or her membership. This notice must be received by IFL at least 30 days prior to the client’s renewal date, which will be the date the client last became a regular member of IFL. The client may alternately unsubscribe to his or her membership anytime prior to the renewal date by clicking “Unsubscribe” buttons that are located in the Services & Membership Ordering and Members Only pages of the website. If IFL does not receive notice of intention to terminate membership at least 30 days prior to client renewal date (if not using the “Unsubscribe” button alternative) IFL will automatically renew membership for one more year. Read section (21) regarding Service of Notice for information on acceptable forms of notice. Client may terminate his or her membership at any time but will not receive any refund for the remaining unused part of his or her membership. They will, however, continue to receive IFL member services for any remaining time left in their membership unless they expressly desire otherwise. Clients should expect their IFL therapist to support them in their decision to terminate. Remember that clients are not required to maintain an IFL membership in order to receive individual services.

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17) Use of Copyrighted Material

All material resident at the IFL Website should be considered copyrighted material. Client may not copy, reproduce, retransmit, distribute, publish, use for any commercial purpose, or otherwise transfer any material resident at the IFL Website without first obtaining the permission of the Director of IFL. Client may only use a single copy of IFL Website material for their own personal use, which in no way will convey any ownership rights.

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18) Links to Other Websites

The IFL Website contains links to other websites. These other websites are considered to be third parties. IFL is not responsible for the content of these websites and makes no representation, warranty, or endorsement with respect to any content or material, or its accuracy, contained therein at any of these websites. The client agrees to not hold IFL liable or responsible in any way for any damages or injuries arising from the client’s use of or association with these other websites.

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19) Advertisements

The IFL Website may contain advertisements from third parties. These advertisements may contain links to other websites. IFL is not responsible for the content, products, or services of these websites and makes no representation, warranty, or endorsement of any product or the content or accuracy of any materials contained in, or linked to, any advertisement on the website. The client agrees to not hold IFL liable or responsible in any way for any type of damages or injuries as result of the client’s use of or association with these other websites.

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20) Service Marks and Trademarks

Insight-for-living and IFL logos are service marks of Insight-for-living. All other service marks and trademarks appearing on the website belong to their respective owners.

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21) Service of Notice

IFL may give acceptable notice to the client by means of a general notice posted on the IFL Website or by email, fax, or letter via mail to the client. Client may give IFL acceptable notice via email or letter mailed to IFL, P.O. Box 2867, Virginia Beach, VA 23450-2867. Other forms of notice to IFL will be deemed unacceptable. The client agrees to accept these terms of service of notice and agrees to not hold IFL liable or responsible in any way for any type of damages or injuries that result from any type or cause of failure of service by the client or IFL.

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22) Choice of Law

This Agreement and the Terms and Conditions set forth herein shall be construed under and governed by the laws of the Commonwealth of Virginia, and any dispute arising from this Agreement or a breach of this Agreement will be governed by the laws of the Commonwealth of Virginia. Client agrees to personal jurisdiction by the state and federal courts sitting in the Commonwealth of Virginia. Client agrees to settle all disputes arising from this Agreement or a breach of this Agreement by mediation and by a mediator chosen by IFL if unable to first settle the dispute directly with IFL.

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23) Merger Clause

This Agreement constitutes the entire Agreement between the parties with respect to the subject matter contained herein and supersedes any and all other agreements, communication (written or oral) between IFL and the client. IFL may amend this Agreement or impose new conditions at any time by notice to client as posted in this Agreement under section (27) of this Agreement entitled Revisions to This Agreement or elsewhere in the IFL Website or by other means as described in section (21) of this Agreement entitled Service of Notice. Any use of the IFL Website or any other IFL service by client after such notice shall be deemed to constitute acceptance by client of such amendments, modifications, or new conditions.

It is understood and agreed to by the client that if any part, term, or provision of this Agreement is held by a court to be illegal or in conflict with any law of the Commonwealth of Virginia, the validity of the remaining terms of this Agreement shall not be altered, and the rights and obligations of the parties shall be construed and enforced as if the Agreement did not contain the part, term, or provision held invalid.

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24) Limitations of Liability

Because the information provided by this Website in many cases represents the subjective opinion of IFL and/or may contain errors, incompleteness, or inaccuracies, IFL does not assume any liability or responsibility for any damage or injury to the client from its use. IFL will also not assume liability or responsibility for the conduct of other clients or visitors to the IFL Website or from third parties. The client assumes full risk of injury or damage from the foregoing. The client agrees to use the IFL Website or other IFL services and any information and/or advice provided by IFL at his or her own risk.

The client agrees to not hold IFL liable or responsible in any way from any type of damages or injuries of any nature including, but not limited to, direct, indirect, incidental, consequential, or special damages or injuries arising out of the client’s use of the IFL Website or other IFL services or due to the inability to access or use the IFL Website or other services provided by IFL.

The client acknowledges that he or she understands and agrees to not only these limitations of liability but also all other sections of the TERMS AND CONDITIONS OF SERVICE AND/OR MEMBERSHIP AGREEMENT as well. The client also acknowledges that he or she elects to participate in online and/or telephone counseling with IFL with this understanding in mind.

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25) Other Notifications

None currently.

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26) New Notifications

None currently.

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27) Revisions to This Agreement

None currently.

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